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minus84:

beaarthursghost:

megadelicious:

sheshalf:

gareth-bales-peen:

palopoli:

This photo was taken the night I was raped.

March 20, 2010.

The boy who has the red ‘X’ over his face was my attacker. The rest are my friends.

The photo was taken at a cast party. He was supposed to have given me a ride home.

I’m finally letting the world know. I’m sure many people at my school already knew because of rumours due to the police officers that hovered around me. But now, over a year later, I’m ready to officially admit it to everyone: I was raped.

I’ve almost posted this many times before, but I lose courage. I’m going to post it this time. I want to spread courage to other people. No matter what the circumstances were, it is in no way your fault. If you were sexually assaulted, you are not in the wrong. If you didn’t want it to happen, it shouldn’t have happened.

I know how you feel. Dehumanized, degraded, unimportant, ashamed. I WAS ashamed. Because of what he did to me I felt ashamed. Why did it feel so embarrassing? You should not be ashamed. It is an act of violence. Someone attacked you. Fuck them. They should not be allowed to get away with it. He was not allowed to get away with it.

Yes, you will cry. Yes, you will feel awful. And yes, it gets better. Tell someone. A parent, a friend, a teacher, anyone. It helps, I swear on my life it helps.

You’re not alone. You’re never alone. You are important. You are strong.

I’m happy. You deserve to be happy, too.

-Annabella

it’s really sad and all that you got raped, but i’m assuming that you’re the girl whose face isn’t blurred and is hanging all over your presumed attacker, touching his chest, and letting him invade your personal space.

maybe you should also think about the messages that you send instead of blaming it all on the “attacker”.

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THE FUCK!?!?! so if I place my hand on a guy’s chest then it’s okay for him to rape me? fuck no. you’re an idiot.

That comment made me fucking livid. I kissed my attacker does that mean I was fucking asking for it? No. No one is asking for it otherwise it would be called CONSENSUAL SEX. I’m so fucking tired of seeing victim blaming on this website.
ITS NOT OKAY FOR SOMEONE TO TOUCH YOU WITHOUT CONSENT.

WEARING PROVOCATIVE CLOTHING AND BEING FLIRTY IS NOT ASKING SOMEONE TO FUCK YOU.

FOR FUCK SAKES

AUGH.

Who knows, maybe it wouldnt have happened had he not gotten the idea from the flirting?

I dont think anyone says its the victims fault, I mean Id be a victim if I went and stood out in the street and got hit by a car, but afterward if someone said “hey, maybe dont stand in the street and that wouldnt happen” I wouldnt say OMG VICTIM BLAMING ME STANDING IN THE STREET IS NOT CONSENT FOR SOMEONE TO HIT ME.

Theres a statistic saying a large percentage of rape is commited by someone the victim knows, maybe you should stop hanging around rapists, all im sayin.

Wow. There are some pretty big assholes on the interwebs.

Reblog > Go to your tumblr > Click in the house > And try to get out of the house.

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loveyourchaos:

vintage-couture:

I JUST SPENT 2 HOURS OF MY LIFE TRYING TO FIGURE THIS OUT. OMG. MOST DIFFICULT THING I’VE EVER DONE.

I CAN’T FUCKING DO IT FUCK

I AM NOT ABLE TO DO IT, IF IT DEPENDED ON MY LIFE, I WOULD BE ALREADY DEAD

This was really fun, it took me forever to find a way out!

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angolocreativo:

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Good times!!

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Good times!!

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